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    Saturday, August 28, 2010

    Pilgrimage to Italy with Sister Gramick


    "Spiritual Treasures of Northern Italy"

     

    Sister Jeannine Gramick, SL 

    Invites you to 

    An LGBT-friendly Pilgrimage

     

    March 20-27, 2011

     

    Departure: March 20, 2011 from Dulles Airport, Washington, DC

    Cost:  $2,995 (includes all expenses, except insurance and personal items)

    Land only: $2,499

    Single rooms: $345 additional (limited availability)

    Deposit: $400

      

    For more information, contact

    Sister Jeannine Gramick, SL   301-864-3604  gramick@juno.com

     

    The pilgrimage cost includes:

    • Round trip airfare from Washington Dulles to Pisa, Italy
    • Airport taxes (up to $150) and fuel surcharges (up to $280)
    • Tips to local guides, bus driver, and tour manager
    • Daily breakfast and dinner
    • First class hotel accommodations (double occupancy)
    • Mass and spiritual activities
    • Ground transportation via private motor coach
    • Entrance fees to sites visited
    • Airport-hotel transfers
    • Baggage handling (one suitcase) 

    Pilgrimage Itinerary:

     

    Day 1 - Sunday March 20 – WASHINGTON DC / PISA

    Today we depart Washington's Dulles airport on our overnight flight to Pisa. We are served complimentary beverages, in-flight movies, dinner, and breakfast.

     

    Day 2 - Monday March 21 – PISA/TUSCANY/FLORENCE

    This morning we arrive in Pisa where we are met by our guide and private motor coach to explore this university city. We marvel at its amazing architectural structures and visit the famous Leaning Tower. Our ride through Tuscany brings us to our hotel in Florence. After dinner at the hotel, we gather for prayer and introductions of old and new friends.

     

    Day 3 - Tuesday March 22 – FLORENCE

    After Mass, we visit the Franciscan Basilica of Santa Croce, the burial place of Michelangelo, Galileo, and Macchiaveli. We have a walking tour through the Piazza della Signoria, pass the Palazzo Vecchio, the Uffizi, and Ponte Vecchio. We visit the Loggia dei Lanzi with the statues of "Perseus," the "Rape of the Sabines," and "Hercules. We continue through Republic Square to visit the 13th century cathedral of Santa Maria del Fiore with its magnificent Duomo, graced by Brunelleschi's dome, the crowning glory of Florence. After lunch, we visit the Academy where we see Michelangelo's famous "David." Dinner and overnight at the hotel.

     

    Day 4 - Wednesday March 23 - BOLOGNA/FLORENCE

    After Mass, we drive to Bologna, the capital of the prosperous Emilia-Romagna region. We'll see the Palazzo del Protesta, the Sala Borsa, Palazzo re Enzo, and the famous 16th century Fountain of Neptune. We'll view the Medieval Market and Loggia Dei Mercanti, Basilica of San Petronio, the Archiginnasio, the medieval Two Towers, and the complex of Santo Stefano. We stop at the 13th century Basilica of St. Dominic, with the sculptured tomb of St. Dominic, a Renaissance masterpiece, statues by Michelangelo, and famous arch by Niccolo da Bari. After lunch we return to Florence for a free afternoon for shopping or personal adventure. After dinner we gather to reflect on the pilgrimage.

     

    Day 5 - Thursday March 24 - RAVENNA/PADUA

    This morning, we travel to Ravenna, known as the mosaic city because of the 5th and 6th century mosaics adorning the walls of its churches and monuments. From the 5th to the 8th centuries, Ravenna was the Western capital of the Roman Empire, the Byzantium of the West, and seat of the Ostrogothic king Theodoric in the early 6th century. We will visit the Basilica of St. Apollinare in Classe, the Basilica of San Vitale, and the Mausoleum of Galla Placidia, filled with stunning mosaics. Following lunch and time to explore, we travel to Padua for dinner and overnight.

     

    Day 6 - Friday March 25 – VENICE

    Following Mass in one of Venice's beautiful churches, this morning's walking tour takes us to the Piazza San Marco, the heart of Venetian life and called by Napoleon the drawing room of Europe. We visit the golden Byzantine Basilica of San Marco, the Bridge of Sighs, and the Doge's Palace. This afternoon is free for shopping, exploring, lounging at a charming cafe, or a romantic gondola ride through the inner canals of Venice. After dinner at the Padua hotel, we gather for reflection on the pilgrimage.

     

    Day 7 - Saturday March 26 - BERGAMO/MILAN

    After Mass at the Basilica of St. Anthony where we can visit his tomb, we drive to Sotto Il Monte, the birthplace of Angelo Roncalli, who became Pope John XXIII. We will visit his home and the museum that was his summer residence while he was bishop and cardinal. Time permitting, we will visit the abbey of St. Egidio, a place dear to Pope John XXIII. We go on to Bergamo, nestled in the Alpine foothills. In the heart of Old Town, the Piazza Vecchia is terraced upon the original Venetian fortifications and dates to the fifth century. We see the Palazzo della Ragione (the town hall), the Basilica of Santa Maria Maggiore, the Colleoni Chapel, and the Baptistery. We continue to Milan and gather after dinner at the hotel for some farewell remarks.

     

    Day 8 - Sunday March 27 –MILAN/WASHINGTON, DC

    We leave Milan to return home through Dulles airport in Washington, DC.

     

    For more information or to register, contact Sr. Jeannine Gramick at gramick@juno.com or 301-864-3604.

     

    Thursday, August 19, 2010

    South Bay Pride This Saturday!


     

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    A "CAN'T MISS" EVENT!

    SATURDAY, AUGUST 21st




    Sunday, August 15, 2010

    The transition

    The Transition
    by Helen T. Cohn


    One day, coming home from the temple where I served as rabbi, I spotted a bag from our local pharmacy on the kitchen counter. It was stapled shut, but the attached prescription for my 25-year-old daughter Laura announced its contents: testosterone. My worst fears were confirmed. I went to my bedroom and cried.

    My daughter had always seemed to me completely feminine and interested in boys. Sometimes she even seemed reckless in her sexuality. At age 20 she gave birth to my granddaughter Rosie "out of wedlock." A year or so later she got married—wearing a puffy white dress and bright red lipstick—to a young man whom she had not known very long. When the marriage failed, Laura and Rosie came to live with me.

    Later that year, Laura began a relationship with a woman.

    I was not able to discuss this development with her, I'll admit. I was too astonished and confused. I told myself the relationship was temporary, all the while I acted as nonchalant as possible, as if I accepted what was happening.

    Then one day my mother, who was much more comfortable talking to Laura about her life than I was, told me that Laura had begun seeing a counselor about a possible gender change.

    I couldn't believe it! Where did such a desire come from? Although Laura had several difficult years as a teen, I never saw an indication that she was unsure of her sexuality or questioned her gender.

    Then, several months after her lesbian relationship ended, Laura arrived at our extended family's end-of-year celebration dressed in the masculine clothing—slacks and a plaid shirt—that had become typical over several months. Suddenly I noticed something different about her: She didn't appear to have breasts!

    When I asked her what happened, Laura explained that she had started binding her chest with an athletic bandage so her breasts would not show.

    The prescription for testosterone appeared three months later.

    For many months after seeing that prescription I led a double life. Outwardly I tried to stay calm and accepting, interested without prying. Inwardly I was consumed with worry: Would the physical changes happening to Laura be permanent, or could she return to her female body once this "phase"—it had to be a phase—was over? After all, how could my 20-something daughter possibly know herself well enough to make such a totally life-altering decision?

    I worried, too, about my granddaughter Rosie. What unimaginable and terrible effects would this have on her life? As an adult would she have a confused gender identity? Would she be incapable of having a stable, loving relationship? More immediately, how would she adjust to her mother turning into her father? Fortunately, the staff at our temple's preschool was loving, sensitive, and accepting of cultural and gender diversity. Only later did I hear about the day Rosie announced to her four-year-old companions at lunch that her mommy was getting a penis. The children didn't seem to think much of it, but the teachers called Laura in for a conference. Laura then coached Rosie on things that are to be discussed only at home and things that can be discussed publicly, and that was the end of it.

    Throughout this period Laura was an extraordinarily loving parent, carefully explaining her transformation in language a preschooler could understand and reassuring Rosie of her enduring love. It took Rosie about a year to make the change from "Mommy" to "Daddy," about the same length of time it took for Laura's body to turn into Lawrence's. It took me longer to switch verbally to "Lawrence." (I still occasionally slip and say "she.")

    Inwardly I wrestled with the changes in my child: shoulders broadening, cheek fuzz turning into beard, voice deepening. In a way it was fascinating: Who could imagine that a body would respond so dramatically to hormone treatment? And yet…where was my daughter? I couldn't bear the thought of her disappearing before my eyes.

    Outwardly, with the exception of my mother and one or two other people, I kept what was happening private. Talking about the situation felt too uncomfortable. I was embarrassed and ashamed that such a shande(shameful thing) could have happened in my family.

    That year I met with a therapist several times. I also prayed. Psalm 118 was my daily focus: "I called on God from a narrow place; God answered from a wide expanse." I hoped that God would help me open my heart in acceptance and love.

    I thought of the story of the heartbroken father who came to the Baal Shem Tov for advice: "My son has turned his back on Judaism. What should I do?" The great Chasidic master replied, "Love him even more."

    The moment of my own transformation happened during a phone call with my mother. As we talked about Lawrence's latest physical changes and I once again expressed my fears, she said, "But he's still the same loving person inside!"

    Suddenly my world clicked into its rightful place. The floodgates of love opened to the truth of it: Laura or Lawrence, daughter or son, was my child, and truly the same person. Yes, this person had a different exterior now. But Lawrence was better able than Laura to cope with the inner turmoil that had plagued her as a teenager. And Lawrence had gained self-confidence, both personally and professionally.

    That was 14 years ago. Rosie has just graduated from high school and is planning to travel for a year before beginning college. None of my earlier fears about her have come to pass. She is a bright, loving, responsible, thoughtful young woman. She is completely comfortable and accepting of her father's journey.

    I measure my own comfort and acceptance by my willingness to talk publicly about our family. At the beginning of Lawrence's transition I met separately with each of my colleagues at the temple. I wanted them to know before they heard from someone else that there was turmoil in my life and heart. They were supportive and sympathetic and not nearly as shocked as I thought they might be. Personal dramas, I learned, are much less dramatic to the outside viewer.

    Nevertheless, I generally chose not to reveal the truth to others. I told myself that what had happened would take too much time and energy to explain. Only later did I come to see that my own discomfort with what Laura/Lawrence had done was the reason I felt so emotionally drained and reluctant to talk about it.

    A couple of years after Lawrence's transition, I met a woman who knew my kids when they were teenagers. She asked about Laura. I'm not sure if she noticed the slight hesitation—a quick internal conversation—before I answered: Does this person "need" to know? Would this person care? Will he/she be able to absorb the news without undue shock or upset? Is this appropriate to discuss, given the time and place? If, for any reason, I come up with a "no," I respond with a general, "Thanks for asking! She's fine." In this case I did tell the young woman about Lawrence. She seemed politely interested, even curious, but within two minutes was on to a different subject. So much for my deep, dark secret!

    Even now, years later, I am sometimes circumspect around this subject. When I meet people socially and they ask if I have children, I simply say, "Yes, I have two sons." They are not asking for a family history and I see no need to give them one. On the other hand, Lawrence's story is a central part of our family's narrative and my life experience. When it is appropriate—such as explaining why I wanted to be on our Jewish community's LGBT Outreach advisory board—I am comfortable speaking with pride about Lawrence, my son who has fashioned the life he wanted.

    As I look back over the years, I smile with appreciation for how much I have changed. What initially seemed a disaster—a source of embarrassment, shame, and confusion—has turned into another rich layer in the complexity of human relationships. I no longer feel a need to keep any of this a secret. This is my life, and this is the child I love.

    Rabbi Helen T. Cohn, HUC-JIR class of 1994, is a spiritual director and a meditation teacher who also serves a congregation in Tucson, Arizona.


     


    Wednesday, August 11, 2010

    Judge to Decide Stay on Thursday


    Marriage Equality USA Logo and Couples
    Marriage Equality USA has just received word that Judge Walker's decision on lifting the stay will be issued tomorrow morning, Thursday - August 12th from 9am to 12pm. 

    If Judge Walker lifts the stay, it is likely it will be appealed to the 9th Circuit Court of Appeals. At the 9th Circuit, it would be reviewed by a 3-person panel and their decision could be appealed to the full 9th Circuit and eventually the US Supreme Court.  But because the US Supreme Court is not in session until October, the decision about lifting the stay would be appealed to the Justice in charge, which for the 9th Circuit is Justice Kennedy.  We are witnessing history and it is crucial that as we continue to move through the courts, we must build support with the court of public opinion and provide a human face to this issue.

    So, Marriage Equality USA's Media Department is looking for same-sex couples who would like to marry if the stay is lifted.  There may be a window of opportunity tomorrow morning for same-sex couples to marry if Judge Walker lifts the stay.  If you can are interested in getting married and in particular, getting married tomorrow if that opportunity exists, please contact us at media@marriageequality.org so we can provide your contact informaiton to local reporters if called.

    Whatever the decision, we need to continue to share our stories - with our friends, neighbors, and co-workers and with the local media - through interviews and letters to the editor.

    Together we can work to ensure everyone will eventually live their happily ever afters

     

    Founded in 1998, Marriage Equality USA is a national grassroots organization whose mission is to secure legally recognized civil marriage equality for all, at the federal and state level, without regard to gender identity or sexual orientation.  For more information go to www.marriageequality.org

    Tuesday, August 10, 2010

    Aids walk donation


    I hope this e-mail finds you well. I'm writing today to ask for your support in this year's AIDS Walk & Run, San Diego's largest non-governmental source of funding for treatment and care of people living with HIV/AIDS.

    Supporting AIDS Walk is critical now more than ever, as once reliable safety-net programs like the AIDS Drug Assistance Program (ADAP) are being threatened by proposed state budget cuts. Those who can afford the least often suffer the most during these challenging economic times. But if we band together in support of our local community-based organizations, we can ensure life-saving service delivery and a continuum of care for those living with HIV/AIDS. 

    Over the last year I've witnessed the damaging consequences of misplaced budget priorities and funding reductions to vital HIV/AIDS programs and I know we can do better.

    So I ask that you consider a gift today of $20, $50, $100, $500 or whatever you can contribute to ensure that San Diegans living with HIV/AIDS can continue to live healthy and productive lives. Feel free to visit my donation page (http://aidswalksd.kintera.org/2010/carlosmarquez) and forward on to your friends!

    I sincerely appreciate your consideration.

    Best wishes,

     

    Carlos Marquez  |  Director of Community Programs & Public Affairs

    The San Diego LGBT Community Center

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    Friday, August 6, 2010

    Breaking News: Gov. and A.G. file motions to oppose stay in Prop. 8 decision


    August 6, 2010
    Equality California | http://www.eqca.org
    Dear Patricia,

    Moments ago, Governor Arnold Schwarzenegger and Attorney General Jerry Brown filed motions opposing a stay of Judge Walker's decision to overturn Prop. 8.

    This is the kind of extraordinary leadership we need from the next governor and attorney general—the kind Jerry Brown and Kamala Harris will deliver.

    Thank you to everyone who has signed our petition to Meg Whitman and Steve Cooley, urging them not to defend Prop. 8 in Court.

    If you haven't yet, please sign our petition. Demand they refuse to defend Prop. 8 in court.

    And urge everyone you know to do the same.

    www.eqca.org/dontdefend8

    Having a governor and attorney general on our side is critical to restoring the right to marry for same-sex couples—either in court or at the ballot box.

    In solidarity,


    Geoff Kors
    Executive Director
    Equality California

     



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    South Bay Pride Celebr8!



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    CELEBR8 Love, Diversity
    & Equality For All!

    South Bay Pride & Music Festival
    August 21, 2010 in Memorial Park, Chula Vista



    Visit http://SouthBayPride.org or
    http://SouthBayAlliance.net for more information

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    Wednesday, August 4, 2010

    Prop 8 overturned



    FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE
    August 4, 2010

    Contact:
    Jean-Marie Navetta
    Director of Communications, PFLAG National
    jnavetta@pflag.org
    (202) 467-8180 ext. 213

    PFLAG Celebrates Historic Win and Declaration of Justice for All in CA Marriage Decision

    Washington, D.C. – Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays – PFLAG National – celebrated the U.S. District Court decision that strikes down California's discriminatory Proposition 8 which denied the right to marry to same-sex couples in the state, stating that the measure violates the U.S Constitution.

    "Today is, in no uncertain terms, historic," said Jody M. Huckaby, executive director of PFLAG National. "With this monumental ruling, all families win and at last have the security of knowing that all of our loved ones – both straight and gay – have the same freedom to marry. Today's ruling sent the message that equality means equality for all."

    The decision issued today in the case of Perry v. Schwarzenegger contends that Proposition 8 violates the Constitutional rights of equal protection and due process. In the decision, U.S. District Judge Vaughan Walker concludes that, "Proposition 8 fails to advance any rational basis in singling out gay men and lesbians for denial of a marriage license., the evidence shows Proposition 8 does nothing more than enshrine in the California Constitution the notion that opposite sex couples are superior to same-sex couples."

    "This case provided families across the country with a chance to know that a court heard and accepted their stories of how inequality and discrimination harms their loved ones each day," said John Cepek, president of PFLAG National. "Once again, we see how telling our stories can and does change hearts and minds."

    Leaders acknowledged that this is not the end of the fight for basic equal rights for all. 

    "Even as we celebrate today's victory, know that our work is far from over. Law change is just the start," said Huckaby. "We need to continue to transform our culture to one that values and treats everyone with the same respect and dignity. There will be more legal challenges, but we're going to keep doing what we know works telling our stories about our families to change hearts and minds."

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    Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (PFLAG) is the nation's foremost family-based organization committed to the civil rights of gays, lesbians, bisexual, and transgender people. Founded in 1973 by mothers and fathers, PFLAG has 200,000 members and supporters in more than 250 chapters throughout the United States. To learn more, please visit www.pflag.org.

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    Join us Today, Wednesday August 4th!


    SAME logo
    August / 2010

    DayOfDecisionBanner

    Welcome to San Diego Alliance for Marriage Equality
     
    Hello Patti!  

    Please Join us in the streets tonight! We have been anxiously awaiting a decision regarding the constitutionality of Proposition 8, and today we will see the results! Also, please join us for our next meeting August 10th!

    DAY OF DECISION 2!!! Today August 4th!  

    Gather - 6:00 p.m. at 6th & University

    March - 6:30 - 7:00 p.m. to The Center

    Community Town Hall - 7:00 - 8:00 p.m. at The Center (3909 Centre Street)
     
    On Wednesday, June 15 Judge Vaughn Walker heard closing arguments in Perry vs. Schwarzenegger, the federal challenge to Proposition 8.

    As our rights hang in the balance, our community awaits Judge Walker's decision to either strike down Prop 8 as unconstitutional or uphold its passage.

    The San Diego LGBT community will come together for a march and town hall gathering the evening of the court's decison is handed down to celebrate or mourn depending the the outcome.

    If Judge Walker rules in our favor, demonstrating our support for his courage will be crucial to our fight for full equality.
     We are still waiting for a ruling, but be prepared!  Click here for the Facebook Event page! That's where all the latest news will be! Also watch your email boxes for updates from SAME about the ruling!

     Proposed Agenda for August 10th:

    1.  Introductions with member's reactions to court decision regarding the constitutionality of Proposition 8 (30 mins)
     
    2.  Review of SAME Community Survey results, with assessment/discussion of the way forward to follow (1 hour)
     
    3. Andorsements and Announcements (10 min)

     

    The Time Is Now!
     
    ThatsSoGayLive!
    www.ThatsSoGayLIVE.com is an online video news source that provides a fun and friendly view to All Things Gay and is created by the direct community we serve, YOU. Finally, we are putting a face, voice & personality to our LGBT/Allied community.
     
     
    ThatSoGayLIVE is a resource and news site that streams video from different segments like, gay news,  gay travel, romance and hot topics. All with a friendly gay twist
     
     
    If you have any videos, know of an LGBT related event, or just want to make an announcement send your stuff to thatssogaylive@gmail.com!
     
    Attention Musicians, Singers, Artists:

    How about joining a music collective where we will all get together to jam and create music for the specific purpose of playing at political rallies, protests, and demonstrations?
     
    If this sounds like something you'd like to be part of, please join us the 2nd and 4th THURSDAYS of the month. This will be an ongoing creative jam so if you miss one week or session, please feel free to come to others. 
     
     
    What to bring:  You, your creativity, musical instruments (even if YOU don't play it, someone may).  If you have ideas for cover songs or have written your own politically-motivated songs, please bring several copies of the music and/or lyrics for others.  If you feel so inclined, you can also bring light food (chips, salsa) and please do bring something to drink for yourself.
     
    When:  Arrive between 6:30 and 6:45 to be ready to jam at 7pm.  Every 2nd and 4th Thursday beginning July 8th.
     
    Contact Joshua Napier at joshuanapier2009@gmail.com or Drew (Drooodls) Searing at drewsearing@gmail.com for more information!
    In This Issue
    Day Of Decision 2 Update!
    Agenda for August 10th
    ThatsSoGayLIVE
    SAME Jam Sessions!
    SAME in the News!
    Links!
    Join Our Mailing List

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    Click the image for more information on Day Of Decision 2!!!!

    SAME in the NEWS! 

    Links!
     
     
    • Please join our membership meetings the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of the
      Month at 6:30pm at a Residential Building on the SE Corner of 4th & Walnut (street parking after 6pm is FREE.) Signs at the gate will guide you to the meeting space which is UPSTAIRS on the 2nd floor.
     
    • SAME meetings are open to the public.  
     
    • If you need directions contact Cecile - 858.335.6615.
     
    Join us at our next Membership Meeting! In Numbers there is Strength,
    in Unity there is Hope, and Together we WILL realize our goal of
    EQUALITY!
     
    Joshua Napier
    Membership Coordinator 

    San Diego Alliance of Marriage Equality

    Join us today for local rally


    Marriage Equality USA Logo and Couples

    Dear Love Warriors

    Join Marriage Equality USA and equality supporters at local community gathering happening across the state and around the nation in response to the Federal Judge Vaughn Walker's historic decision regarding the constitutionality of Proposition 8.

     

    We have received word that Judge Walker will issue his decision, tomorrow - Wednesday, August 4th.  That evening, these community gatherings will provide an essential outlet for us to share in this important decision with national implications and provide an opportunity to discuss next steps for continuing our efforts to make marriage equality a reality in our nation."

     

    Below is the current list of organized events.  If your location isn't currently listed and you'd like to organize an event, post it at www.prop8decision.com and contact us a media@marriageequality.org.   And to support Marriage Equality USA with grassroots organizing, like these Day of Decision rallies, please become a member or donate to our organization at http://www.marriageequality.org/join-now

     

     

    Federal Prop 8 Trial Day of Decision Events

    Below is our current list for Day of Decision events.  For the lasts information, go to the Day of Decision website (www.prop8decision.com).

     

    In California:

    Contra Costa County – Concord at Todos Santos Plaza at Willow Pass and Grant at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

     

    Contra Costa County – Martinez at the County Clerk's Office at 822 Main Street at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

     

    Contra Costa County – Richmond at City Hall at 450 Civic Center Plaza at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

     

    Contra Costa County – Walnut Creek at City Hall on 1666 North Main Street at 6PM.  Contact ca-contracosta@marriageequality.org.

     

    Kern County – Bakersfield at the Outback corner of Stockdale and Village at 5pm.  Contact ca-kern@marriageequality.org

     

    Mendocino County – Ukiah at Alex Thomas Plaza at 6 PM. Contact ca-mendocino@marriageequality.org

     

    Orange County - Santa Ana at Sasscer Park at 7PM

     

    Riverside County – Palm Springs at the County Courthouse at 7pm. 

     

    Sacramento County – Sacramento at the LGBT Center at 20th Street Between K & L, TBD.  Contact ca-sacramento@marriageequality.org

     

    San Bernardino County - Rancho Cucamonga at Day Creek and Foothill Blvd, 11 PM

     

    San Francisco County – San Francisco starting at Harvey Milk Plaza in the Castro at 5PM and ending with a march to Civic Center Plaza for a rally at 6:45PM. Contact media@marriageequality.org.

     

    San Luis Obispo County at the Mission Plaza Amphitheater at 5:30pm.  Contact ca-sanluisobispo@marriageequality.org.

     

    Santa Clara County - Mountain View CalTrain Station and City Hall at 6PM.  Contact ca-santaclara@marriageequality.org.

     

    Santa Clara County – San Jose at the Billy De Frank Community Center at 938 The Alameda at 6 PM.  Contact ca-santaclara@marriageequality.org.

     

    Tulare – Kings Counties- Porterville on sidewalk in front of SaveMart at Henderson and Port at 5PM.  Contact ca-tulare@marriageequality.org.

     

    Outside California:

    Colorado – Denver at the Colorado State Capitol Building at 6 PM.

     

    Texas –  Solidarity rallies are planned in Austin, Dallas, Denton, Houston and San Antonio.  Go to http://eaatexas.org .  

     

    New York – Rochester