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    Thursday, March 24, 2011

    Pflag scholarships




    PFLAG Scholarships Available
     
    PFLAG San Diego is proud to announce that this is our 13th year of offering LGBT students scholarships. We hope to offer seven scholarships as we did last year. They range from $1000-2500. To be eligible, you must currently be a senior in high school or in secondary education, including graduate school.  The deadline isFriday, March 25. For other elegibility requirements and to download the application, go towww.pflag.com and click on the scholarship link. We must also stress that recipients must be able to attend the  Awards Presentation in order to receive the scholarship:  Monday, June 27. If you have any questions, please email Scholarship Chair Olivia Dorman,oliviaenid@gmail.com.




    Wednesday, March 23, 2011

    Apple pulled Iphone ap off

    Change.org


    Amazing! After more than 150,000 petition signatures from Change.org members and saturation media coverage, news outlets worldwide are reporting that Apple has pulled an iPhone application launched by Exodus International that claimed to help "cure" gay and lesbian people.

    This is a huge, public victory against the dangerous myth that gay young people can and should be "turned straight" -- a falsehood that contributes to the plague of depression and suicide afflicting these kids and young adults. Our friends at Truth Wins Out, the organization that started the petition on Change.org, are absolutely thrilled.

    Apple did the right thing because an incredible 151,125 Change.org members -- including you -- stood together to demand it. We spread the word on Facebook more than 55,000 times. And together we attracted the attention of media around the globe, including CNN, MSNBC, Fox, ABC, CBS, and hundreds of newspapers and blogs. 

    It's simply amazing. Thank you for making this victory possible.


    Remembering Elizabeth Taylor




    Elizabeth Taylor -- a great and courageous ally, friend and champion -- has passed and we stop for a moment today to honor her courage and activism on behalf of so many of us.

    When she first began speaking out about HIV/AIDS in the early 1980s, there was still a great deal of mystery, fear and stigma surrounding the disease. She was the first really big celebrity to use her fame to advocate for better public health policy, and to raise funds for HIV/AIDS treatment, services and research.

    While she started local, appearing at the first major AIDS benefit for AIDS Project Los Angeles (APLA), in 1985 she joined forces with Dr. Mathilde Krim and went on to become the founding international chairperson of the American Foundation for AIDS Research (amFAR).

    It was a time when thousands of people became devastatingly ill and died rapid and horrible deaths, and yet the silence from our government was deafening. In those dark times, Elizabeth Taylor used the light of her celebrity to draw mainstream media attention to the government's failure to respond to the AIDS crisis. She boldly stood with us to urge public support for better treatment of people living with HIV/AIDS. In those days, before e-mail, texting, Facebook and Twitter, her voice had a powerful ripple effect that helped make the world more aware of this growing health crisis.

    She took on the fight for a cure with a determined and focused passion. She traveled around the world – she spoke at conferences, visited with people with AIDS in hospital wards, testified before Congress to ensure support for the Ryan White CARE Act and addressed the General Assembly at the United Nations on World AIDS Day.

    In addition to supporting the work of numerous HIV/AIDS organizations, in 1991 she established the Elizabeth Taylor AIDS Foundation, with a focus on direct services for people living with HIV/AIDS throughout the world.  Today her family requests that any memorial donations benefit that fund.

    In looking back at her steadfast commitment in the fight against HIV/AIDS, some of her words are important reminders of the difference she made during her lifetime.

    "So many people were frightened and doing so little about it and saying so little …. The silence was thunderous, and the only way to stop that is to speak out."

    "I'm not here in Washington to make people like me. I'm here to speak about a national scandal; a scandal of neglect, indifference and abandonment."

    In 1993, she was awarded a special humanitarian Oscar for her HIV/AIDS advocacy. As she received that award 18 years ago, she spoke words that are just as resonant today as they were then.

    "I call upon you to draw from the depths of your being -- to prove that we are a human race, to prove that our love outweighs our need to hate, that our compassion is more compelling than our need to blame."

    While we mourn her passing, and extend our sympathies to her family and friends, we know that her spirit will live on – not just in her many films, but in the hearts and minds of all those she touched as one of the most inspirational HIV/AIDS activists of our time. RIP Elizabeth Taylor, and thank you.

     

    Monday, March 21, 2011

    The Center LGBT happenings this week!



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     March 21, 2011

    LGBT Movement Makes Major Advances, But Are They Sustainable?
    MAPRead the latest Movement Advancement Report on LGBT social justice and advocacy organizations - now available online at www.lgbtmap.org.

    A Huffington Post op-ed by MAP Executive Director Ineke Mushovic examining implications of the report's findings,  "LGBT Movement Makes Major Advances, But Are They Sustainable? states that, "MAP analysis shows that fewer than 4 percent of all LGBT adults in the U.S. are donating $35 or more to these organizations. At the same time, just the top 10 anti-LGBT organizations--groups like Focus on the Family, Family Research Council, American Family Association and the National Organization for Marriage--spent $333.1 million in 2009. That amounts to twice the 2009 expenses of all 39 participating LGBT organizations combined ($165.6 million)."

    Dine Out! Fight AIDS! Volunteer! 
    Dine_Out_tray The Center's fifth annual Dining Out for Life® San Diego will take place on Thursday, April 28, and volunteers are needed! Ambassadors are assigned to a participating restaurant, bar or coffee shop (location of their choice) and they invite everyone they know to dine at their location during their shift on the day of the event. To volunteer, call Casey Fields at (619) 692-2077, ext. 247. Last year, more than 15,000 diners participated. Find out more at www.diningoutforlife.com/sandiego or on Facebook!

    Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast Student Essay Contest
    Harvey Milk Logo smallThe Harvey Milk Video Essay Contest is open to all high school students ages 14-18 in San Diego County schools. Videos are due by 5 pm on April 29 and the winner of the contest will be announced on May 6. The winner will receive a $750 prize sponsored by San Diego LGBT Pride and will be featured at the Third Annual Harvey Milk Breakfast on May 20, 2011. For application and submission information, visit our website

    Saturday, March 26, Community Yard Sale – Donate Today, Shop on Saturday! 
    yard sale Don't miss the Community Yard Sale at The Center on Saturday, March 26, 7 am-2 pm! Clean out your closets, cabinets and garage, and donate the reusable items to the San Diego LGBT Community Center. Then stop by on the 26th to shop! For more information, contact Jane Schmoll at 619.692.2077 x121, or families@thecentersd.org  


    Save the Dates
    Thursday, April 28 – Dining Out for Life
    Saturday, May 7 – Women's Fest
    Friday, May 20  – Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast
    Saturday, June 25 – Happy Birthday Frida
    Sunday, Sept. 25 – AIDS Walk San Diego
    Saturday, Oct. 22 – The Center's Annual Gala
    Saturday, Oct. 29 – Nightmare on Normal Street


    Spotlight Events...

    Tuesday, March 22, 11:30 am, LGBT Creative Writers Group
    Join 50 & Better Together's LGBT Creative Writers Group every fourth Tuesday of the month at 11:30 am for another stop on our journey to become better writers. Bring a pen, paper and an open mind! No previous writing experience necessary. For information, contact Abby Schwartz at 619.692.2077 x212 or seniors@thecentersd.org.

    Thursday, March 24, 7 pm, Women's Lecture Series Presents Feeding the Hand That Bit You
    Don't miss the stimulating second talk in the Women's Lecture Series, at 7 pm on Thursday March 24 at The Center. Dr. Susan E. Cayleff presents "Feeding the Hand That Bit You: Lesbian Daughters at Mid-Life Negotiating Parental Care." This lecture will explore how lesbian daughters, some of whom were not accepted by or remained closeted to their families, respond to the need to care for their elderly parents. Join us for a vibrant discussion of family dynamics, sexual identity, and caregiving issues. For more information, contact Abby Schwartz at 619.692.2077 x212 or women@thecentersd.org.

    Tuesday, March 29, 6 pm, Same Sex Couple Tax Filing & IRS Community Property Workshop
    The Internal Revenue Service has announced it will apply community property laws to California, Washington and Nevada registered domestic partners and California same-sex spouses to reflect "income-splitting" in the same way that it applies those laws to different-sex married couples who file their federal income tax returns separately. This change may affect your tax return. The Center will host a free workshop on Tuesday, March 29 at 6 pm featuring Michael Williams of Williams & Dodson, CPA, who will review the change and provide resources for same-sex couples for this filing cycle. RSVP to Carlos Marquez cmarquez@thecentersd.org by Friday, March 25 if you plan to attend. To help understand the new rules in the meantime, Lambda Legal has developed and posted a list of answers to frequently asked questions. Visit the website for details.

    Tuesday, March 29, 7 pm, Transgender Rights Workshop
    Please join us at The Center on Tuesday, March 29, at 7 pm for a workshop on transgender rights. Representatives from the San Francisco-based Transgender Law Center will be in San Diego to answer your questions on transgender issues surrounding our legal system. Find out about driver's licenses, passports, employment and much more. All are welcome.

    News of Note...
    Program Activities: Youth, Seniors, Families, Men, Women, HIV Community and More...

    Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast Tables Selling Out Buy Yours Soon!

    HIV Testing at The Center
    HIV tests are available at The Center Monday/Wednesday, 9 am-2 pm, Tuesday/Thursday, 9 am-3:15 pm and Friday, 9 am-1:45 pm. For more information, call 619.692.2077 x101.

    HIV Behavioral Health Services & Counseling (English & Spanish)

    Wednesday, April 6, 6:30 pm, Guys, Games & Grub

    Friday, April 8, 6 pm, Transgender Day of Empowerment

    Saturday, May 7, 10 am, Women's Fest Goes DIY (Do it Yourself)

    Fridays, 7:30-8:30 pm, Young Men's Group @ HYC

    Fridays, 8:30-9:30 pm, Young Women's Group @ HYC

    Twenty-Somethings Discussion Groups for Men and Women

    Community...

    Take the (Brief) Survey for Family Health Centers

    Thursday, March 24, Deadline for Imperial Court de San Diego Mark Huntley Award Nominations

    March 25, PFLAG Scholarship Applications Due

    Friday, March 25, Deadline to Apply to the Community Engagement Job Training Academy

    Saturday/Sunday, April 9/10, San Diego Gay Men's Chorus Spring Concert

    Saturday, April 16, 10 am, Multicultural Explosion

    Wednesday, April 20, 11 am, Ryan White Services Regional Committee Meeting

    EQCA's 2011 Equality Bills

    Planned Parenthood

    ACLU

    Environmental Health Coalition

    A Fabulous Menu of Giving Opportunities!

    No matter what strikes your passion and heart most deeply -- youth, seniors, families, housing, equality work --  there are a menu of giving opportunities to help support the 46,000 service visits for LGBT San Diegans that we provide every year!

    Every dollar you can give helps to support the services, projects and programs that make a difference for so many in the LGBT San Diego community. You don't have to give thousands to make a difference in lives, give what you can and together we can all keep making a difference!

    Thank you so much for your generosity and for all you do!

    Career Opportunities...

    Know someone who is right for the job? Current openings include:
     
    Public Affairs Coordinator

    Case Manager, Youth Housing Project

    Major Gifts Officer

    

    Tell Congress to Respect ALL Marriages Today!



    Tell Congress to Respect ALL Marriages Today!

    On Wednesday, March 16th, Representatives Jerrold Nadler (D-NY), Barney Frank (D-MA), Tammy Baldwin (D-WI), Jared Polis (D-CO), David Cicilline (D-RI), and John Conyers (D-MI), announced the re-introduction of the Respect for Marriage Act (H.R. 1116) in the U.S. House of Representatives. Additionally, for the first time ever, Senators Dianne Feinstein (D-CA), Patrick Leahy (D-VT) and Kirsten Gillibrand (D-NY) introduced a companion bill (S. 598) in the U.S. Senate. The bill would repeal the Defense of Marriage Act (DOMA), and restore the rights of all lawfully married couples - including same-sex couples - to receive the benefits and responsibilities of marriage under federal law. The legislation would also provide married same-sex couples with over 1,100 federal benefits even if they moved to a state that does not recognize their marriage.  Currently Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont and the District of Columbia all recognize same-sex marriages. 

    • Find Your Congress Member. To learn the name of your U.S. House Representative and your U.S. Senators, go to http://capwiz.com/pflag/dbq/officials/and enter your address, or call the US Capitol Switchboard at (202) 224-3121 and ask to be connected to your U.S. House Representative or your U.S. Senators.
    • Keep PFLAG Updated. Let us know how your phone conversation or meeting went. Send an e-mail to Rhodes Perry, PFLAG National's Associate Director of Policy and Programs.
    Thank you for moving equality forward!