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    PFLAG Policy Matters - 01.11.11


    Moving Equality Forward through Support, Education, and Advocacy


    PFLAG Policy Matters

    January 11, 2011

    Front Page Headlines

    Congress Gets Fourth Openly LGBT Representative.  Rep. David Cicilline (D-RI) was sworn in Wednesday, becoming the fourth openly LGBT member of the 112th Congress and only the seventh out LGBT person to serve in the House.  He joins Reps. Barney Frank (D-MA), Tammy Baldwin (D-WI), and Jared Polis (D-CO), who were reelected in November. "I am thrilled to be the next congressman from Rhode Island's First District and so grateful to the members of the LGBT community who supported my campaign," Cicilline said. The former Providence mayor succeeds Rep. Patrick Kennedy, who retired.  Cicilline earned the endorsement of many national LGBT organizations, including the Human Rights Campaign and the Gay & Lesbian Victory Fund.

    Expert Panel Publishes Recommendations to Prevent LGBT Suicide.  A panel of 26 leading researchers, clinicians, educators and policy experts released a comprehensive report on the prevalence and underlying causes of suicidal behavior in lesbian, gay, bisexual and transgender adolescents and adults. The report will be published as the lead article in the January 2011 issue of the Journal of Homosexuality. The article is currently available online and will appear in print on Jan. 19. Titled "Suicide and Suicide Risk in Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender Populations: Review and Recommendations," the report makes sweeping recommendations for closing knowledge gaps about suicidal behavior in LGBT people, and calls for making LGBT suicide prevention a national priority.  Despite four decades of research pointing to elevated rates of suicide attempts among LGBT people, national suicide prevention initiatives, including the 2001 National Strategy for Suicide Prevention, have given little attention to suicide risk in LGBT individuals.

    Media Matters launches a communications war room for LGBT equality.  Last week, a liberal media watchdog group said it planned to announce on Monday that it was setting up a communications war room for LGBT equality in an effort to win one of the movement's next and biggest battles: marriage equality. The new group,Equality Matters, grew out of Media Matters, an organization backed by wealthy liberal donors — including prominent LGBT philanthropists — that has staked its claim in Washington punditry with aggressive attacks on Fox News and conservative commentators like Rush Limbaugh and Glenn Beck.

    Public Policy Watch

    President Obama Signs DADT Repeal.  On December 22, 2010, President Obama signed the landmark repeal of the military's "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" law, handing a major victory to LGBT advocates and fulfilling a campaign promise to do away with a practice that he has called discriminatory.  Casting the repeal in terms of past civil rights struggles, Obama said he was proud to sign a law that "will strengthen our national security and uphold the ideals that our fighting men and women risk their lives to defend."  The signing does not immediately implement the repeal but instead begins the process of ending the ban on lesbian, gay and bisexual service members serving openly in the military.  The law will not actually change until the Pentagon certifies to Congress that the military has met several conditions, including education and training programs for the troops.

    LGBT Youth Targeted for National Suicide Prevention Efforts.  The National Action Alliance for Suicide Prevention (NSSP) today added three new task forces to address suicide prevention efforts within high-risk populations, one of which included youth who identify as lesbian, gay, bisexual and/or transgender (LGBT).  In the coming months, the task force will identify and develop systems and strategies to improve data collection and surveillance of suicidal behaviors, prioritizing research on suicide prevention, and updating the NSSP.  The Substance Abuse and Mental Health Services Administration, an agency within the U.S. Department of Health and Human Services, will provide support and technical expertise for the task forces and the Action Alliance, in cooperation with the private sector and other federal support.

    New Jersey Governor Enacts Strongest Anti-Bullying Law.  Governor Chris Christie has signed a bill that gives New Jersey the toughest anti-bullying law in the country. The "Anti-Bullying Bill of Rights" is intended to eliminate loopholes in the state's first anti-bullying law, enacted in 2002, that encouraged school districts to set up programs to combat bullying but did not mandate it. The new law will require training for most public school teachers, administrators and other employees on how to spot bullying and mandate that all districts form a "school safety team" to review complaints. School districts would be graded by the state on their efforts to combat the problem. Administrators who do not investigate reported incidents of bullying would be disciplined, while students who bully could be suspended or expelled. School employees would also be required to report all incidents they learn of, whether they took place in or outside of school.

    NC Trans Hospital Protections Effective.  Equality North Carolina is praising new changes in North Carolina's Hospital Patient's Bill of Rights.  The change, which took effect Jan. 1, prohibits discrimination on the basis of gender identity. The group had previously won changes to secure anti-discrimination measures on the basis of sexual orientation and visitation for same-sex couples.  "The updated non-discrimination rule in the Patient's Bill of Rights will help ensure that transgender patients know their rights and health care providers know they must provide the same level of care to all patients regardless of their gender identity," said Ian Palmquist, Equality North Carolina's executive director. The policy changes received unanimous approval from the Medical Care Commission and the Rules Review Commission.

    Virginia Delegates Push Anti-Bullying Legislation. Two Northern Virginia Democrats are sponsoring legislation to attempt to curb teen bullying..Openly gay Del. Adam Ebbin (D-Arlington) is proposing a bill that would make egregious bullying a criminal misdemeanor, punishable by up to 1 year in jail and a $2,500 fine. Ebbin cited the case of York County high school student Christian Taylor, who died by suicide in May. Ebbin called it "outrageous" that bullying so severe as to contribute to a student's suicide would not be criminal conduct.  Del. David Englin (D-Alexandria) is sponsoring separate legislation that would require that teachers be trained in dealing with bullying, that they report bullying incidents to school authorities and mandate that they intervene when a student is being harassed. Englin's bill defines bullying more broadly than Ebbin's, calling it "verbal, physical or written conduct that creates a hostile environment that interferes with another student's education, physical or psychological well-being."

    Rhode Island Marriage Equality Bill Introduced.  Last week, the drive to legalize marriage equality in Rhode Island began anew, with the re-introduction in the House of a bill to allow for same-sex nuptials.  Lead sponsor, Rep. Arthur Handy (D-Cranston) said he hoped the bill's early introduction would spark an early-session hearing and vote on the measure.  Besides Handy, the other lead sponsors include Representatives Frank Ferri (D-Warwick), Edith Ajello (D-Providence), Deborah Ruggiero (D-Jamestown) and the openly gay House Speaker Gordon D. Fox, (D-Providence), who had said in the days leading up to the start of the 2011 General Assembly session that he hoped for a House vote on marriage equality early in the session, before the lawmakers get wrapped up in the budget and other issues.

    New Mexico "Will Likely" Recognizes Out-of-State Same-Sex Marriages.  Marriage equality advocates received some good news on last Tuesday as New Mexico Attorney General Gary King issued an opinion stating that same-sex marriages from out of state would likely be legal here. King came to this conclusion after "a comprehensive legal analysis" by his office which said that New Mexico can recognize same-sex marriages from states where it's legal. "While we cannot predict how a New Mexico court would rule on this issue, after review of the law in this area, it is our opinion that a same-sex marriage that is valid under the laws of the country or state where it was consummated would likewise be found valid in New Mexico," King said.  While 40 states explicitly bar marriage equality, King says that New Mexico's law does "not explicitly address the recognition of same-sex marriages from other jurisdictions," according to the release announcing the opinion.







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    Monday, January 10, 2011

    SAME Join us tomorrow, January 11th!


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    January / 2011

    Let's Build a National Movement

    Welcome to San Diego Alliance for Marriage Equality
      

     Join us tomorrow, Tuesday January 11th  to add your voice to some perspectives and plans going into the New Year! We hope everyone enjoyed their holidays and the short break from activism.  Below is our proposed agenda for this week's meeting. Wew hope to have you at our meeting!

    Agenda for January 11th


    1.  Introductions with discussion question*  (30 mins)
         *Reactions to the Repeal of Don't-Ask-Don't-Tell

     

    2.  Discussion of SAME's "political identity"*  (30 mins)
         *Perception vs reality that SAME is the "left wing of the movement"; pros & cons of "Big Tent" vs "Left Umbrella"

     

    3.  Discussion of next action/activities for SAME (30 mins)
         Proposed so far:
         a.  Organizing with GSAs
         b.  Planning to "Take Back the Night" against Hate Crimes
         c.  Tabling at the LGBT Center's annual Volunteer Fair
         d.  Possible Equality 9 defense campaign action / activity

     

    4.  "Equality 9" update (legal update & discussion of public support for the Equality 9).  (5 mins)

     

    5.  Steering Committee Nominations*  (5 mins)
         Please remember to come prepared to make your nominations for the 2011 steering committee.
         Elections to steering committee will be held at the next SAME meeting, on the 4th Tuesday of this month.

     

    6.  Voting on requests for endorsements (10 mins)
         1.  Racist Arizona Sherrif Joe Arpaio coming to San Diego (endorse & join protest)


         2.  Wikileaks / Bradley Manning Town Hall meeting planned for February (endorse & attend) Facebook Event found here: http://www.facebook.com/#!/event.php?eid=115388955198895 

     

    7.  Open Announcements (10 mins)

    SAME Steering Committee Elections!

    The current Steering Committee will be coming up for re-election or replacement very soon. Have you considered being a member of the Steering Committee? Know someone that would want to be? We will be discussing this at future SAME meetings, so start considering your nominations now! Elections will be held sometime after the holidays.


     

    FREE BRADLEY MANNING!
     

    In late May 2010, Private First Class Bradley Manning, an intelligence analyst with the US Army in Baghdad, was arrested, suspected of providing the "Collateral Murder" video to WikiLeaks.

    On June 6, 2010, he was charged with violating the Uniform Code of Military Justice, including eight criminal offenses and four noncriminal violations of Army regulations. The full charge sheet is available at www.bradleymanning.org/3163/charge-sheet-html.

    His arrest was precipitated by an alleged online chat confession to well-known hacker and journalist Adrian Lamo.

    Manning is currently imprisoned in the brig at US Marine Corps Base Quantico in Quantico, Virginia, awaiting trial. If convicted, Manning faces up to 52 years in prison, dishonorable discharge, forfeiture of all pay and benefits and unspecified fines. Since his arrest, Bradley Manning has issued no formal public statements. Daniel Ellsberg, the famed whistle blower behind the Pentagon Papers, has heralded Pfc. Bradley Manning as a hero.

    The "Collateral Murder" Video
    American Soldiers Gunning Down Unarmed Civilians, Journalists and Children

    On April 4, 2010, whistle-blowing website WikiLeaks published a classified video of a United States Apache helicopter firing on civilians in New Baghdad in 2007. The video, available at www.collateralmurder.com, shows Americans shooting and killing 11 individuals who do not return fire. Two of those killed were Reuters' employees, including 22 year old Reuters' photojournalist Namir Noor-Eldeen and his driver, 40 year old Saeed Chmagh.

    The video includes an audio recording of the internal commentary by the American soldiers before, during and after the shooting. The soldiers repeatedly request and are granted permission to open fire, encourage one another and joke about the dead and dying civilians. (Full transcript available here)

    A total of 11 adults were killed. Two children, passengers in a van that arrived on the scene after the first bout of gunfire had ceased, were seriously injured when the Apache helicopter opened fire on their van.

    In 2007, Reuters called for an investigation into the attack. In response, a spokesman for the multinational forces in Baghdad stated: "There is no question that coalition forces were clearly engaged in combat operations against a hostile force."

    Read the Army's report on the death's of two Reuter's employees and the wounding of the two children.

    There was no investigation of the nine other deaths.

    No charges have been filed against the American soldiers in the Apache helicopter who shot and killed the civilians in the video.

    The Time Is Now!
     
    ThatsSoGayLive!
    www.ThatsSoGayLIVE.com is an online video news source that provides a fun and friendly view to All Things Gay and is created by the direct community we serve, YOU. Finally, we are putting a face, voice & personality to our LGBT/Allied community.
     
     
    ThatSoGayLIVE is a resource and news site that streams video from different segments like, gay news,  gay travel, romance and hot topics. All with a friendly gay twist
     
     
    If you have any videos, know of an LGBT related event, or just want to make an announcement send your stuff to thatssogaylive@gmail.com!
     
    Attention Musicians, Singers, Artists:

    How about joining a music collective where we will all get together to jam and create music for the specific purpose of playing at political rallies, protests, and demonstrations?
     
    If this sounds like something you'd like to be part of, please join us the 2nd and 4th THURSDAYS of the month. This will be an ongoing creative jam so if you miss one week or session, please feel free to come to others. 
     
     
    What to bring:  You, your creativity, musical instruments (even if YOU don't play it, someone may).  If you have ideas for cover songs or have written your own politically-motivated songs, please bring several copies of the music and/or lyrics for others.  If you feel so inclined, you can also bring light food (chips, salsa) and please do bring something to drink for yourself.
     
    When:  Arrive between 6:30 and 6:45 to be ready to jam at 7pm.  Every 2nd and 4th Thursday beginning July 8th.
     
    Contact Joshua Napier at joshuanapier2009@gmail.com or Drew (Drooodls) Searing at drewsearing@gmail.com for more information!

     The Sit-In in the NEWS!:

    No Justice of the Peace, No Peace!


    BREAKING NEWS: Arrests being made in protest at San Diego County Clerk's Office

    http://sdgln.com/news/2010/08/19/breaking-news-arrests-being-made-protest-san-diego-county-clerk-s-office

    VIDEO: San Diego County wastes big bucks, sends 50 riot-clad deputies to arrest 9 protestors

    http://www.sdgln.com/news/2010/08/19/county-wastes-over-100k-arresting-nine


    Protesters arrested at Prop. 8 sit-in (video)
    http://www.signonsandiego.com/news/2010/aug/19/protesters-stage-sit-in-at-county-clerks-office/


    Arrests Made After Same-Sex Couples Denied Marriage License
    http://www.10news.com/news/24687663/detail.html


    Protesters Arrested at San Diego Prop 8 Sit-In
    http://www.shewired.com/Article.cfm?ID=25613

     
    Gay marriage advocates continue to fight for right to wed
    http://www.cbs8.com/Global/story.asp?S=13001135

    Deputies Arrest Prop 8 Protesters

    http://www.nbcsandiego.com/news/local-beat/Small-Group-Protests-Prop-8-at-Clerks-Office--101085679.html

    http://www.sitin4equality.net/

    "Well Done S.A.M.E.! Never give up -- never give in! "
    http://www.back2stonewall.com/search?q=SAME


    San Diego gay couple's marriage appointment becomes a medium for protesters
    http://www.examiner.com/church-state-in-san-diego/san-diego-gay-couple-s-marriage-appointment-becomes-a-medium-for-protesters


    Pro-gay marriage demonstrators arrested at county building
    http://www.cbs8.com/Global/story.asp?S=13013492


    Pro-gay marriage demonstrators arrested at County building
    http://www.kusi.com/home/Pro-gay-marriage-demonstrators-arrested-at-County-building--101101479.html


    9 Arrested at SAME Rally at San Diego County Clerk's Office
    http://gltnewsnow.com/2010/08/20/9-arrested-at-same-rally-at-county-clerks-office-rally/


    9 Gay Activists Arrested In San Diego Protesting Prop 8 Stay
    http://www.ontopmag.com/article.aspx?id=6253&MediaType=1&Category=26


    Stay on Same Sex Marriages in California Upheld For Now
    http://www.demotix.com/news/415252/stay-same-sex-marriages-california-upheld-now


    Stay of Prop 8 Ruling Prompts Protests on a day when gay marriages would have resumed

    http://www.dallasvoice.com/stay-prop-8-ruling-prompts-protests-day-gay-marriages-resumed-1040260.html


    Gay Marriage Supporters Arrested at County Clerk's Office
    http://www.sandiego6.com/news/local/story/Gay-Marriage-Supporters-Arrested-at-County-Clerks/a4uMjMjmn0qsqqrNZbf8tw.cspx


    Same-Sex Couples Arrested in San Diego After Blocking Access to County Clerk's Office in Marriage Equality Protest
    http://slog.thestranger.com/slog/archives/2010/08/19/same-sex-couples-arrested-after-blocking-access-to-county-clerks-office-in-marriage-equality-protest

    9 arrested at SD Co offices for protesting Prop. 8
    http://www.mercurynews.com/breaking-news/ci_15831811?nclick_check=1


    Same sex marriage supporters stage protest
    http://www.examiner.com/civil-rights-in-sacramento/same-sex-marriage-supporters-stage-protest


    Gay couple denied marriage license; protestors arrested blocking county office
    http://www.gay-sd.com/breaking-news/gay-couple-denied-marriage-license-at-county-office-protestors-arrested-blocking-entrance-to-county-office/

    In This Issue
    Agenda for January 11th
    Steering Committee Elections
    Free Bradley Manning!
    ThatsSoGayLIVE
    SAME Jam Sessions!
    Links about the Sit-In!
    SAME in the News!
    Links!
    Join Our Mailing List

    Untie To Make It Right December 4th!!!
    Click the image for Facebook Event information!
        

    SAME in the NEWS! 

    Links!
     
     
    • Please join our membership meetings the 2nd and 4th Tuesday of the
      Month at 6:30pm at a Residential Building on the SE Corner of 4th & Walnut (street parking after 6pm is FREE.) Signs at the gate will guide you to the meeting space which is UPSTAIRS on the 2nd floor.
     
    • SAME meetings are open to the public.  
     
    • If you need directions contact Cecile - 858.335.6615.
     
    Join us at our next Membership Meeting! In Numbers there is Strength,
    in Unity there is Hope, and Together we WILL realize our goal of
    EQUALITY!
     
    Joshua Napier
    Membership Coordinator 

    San Diego Alliance of Marriage Equality
    San Diego Alliance of Marriage Equality | 301 University Ave | San Diego | CA | 92103

    The Center LGBT happenings this week!



    January 11, 2011
    Up Front
    News of Note

    Keeping San Diego Communities Safe: A Discussion on Hate Crimes & Public Safety in the New Year, Jan. 10, 6:30 pm
    Come learn about the shared commitment by local public safety agencies in keeping the diverse communities of San Diego safe, even in the face of reduced resources and a challenging economy. Hear about how agencies collaborate to investigate and prosecute hate crime offenders and what you can do if you or someone you know is the victim of a hate crime. READ MORE...

    Town Hall Forum with Dr. Susan Love: Lesbians and Breast Cancer, Saturday, Jan. 29, 9 am
    World-renowned breast cancer expert, author and activist, Dr. Susan Love is scheduled to be the keynote speakers and host "Lesbians & Breast Cancer: A Town Hall Forum" at The Center on Saturday, Jan. 29 from 9 am-1 pm. 

    The forum is open to the public and free to attend, courtesy of a grant by the BCAUSE FUND housed at the San Diego Human Dignity Foundation. The schedule includes a free breakfast, followed by a presentation and Q&A session with Dr. Love. READ MORE...

    Watch for Our New Website - Coming Soon!
    We're putting together a new, improved, easier-to-navigate website. It's a fresh new look for a fresh new year. Watch for it at www.thecentersd.org!

    Save the Dates
    Thursday, April 28 – Dining Out for Life 2011
    Friday, May 20 – Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast
    Sunday, Sept. 25 – AIDS Walk San Diego
    Saturday, Oct. 22 – The Center's Annual Gala
    Saturday, Oct. 29 – Nightmare on Normal Street

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    Spotlight Events

    Annual Community Volunteer Fair, Wednesday, Jan. 26, 5:30 pm
    The Community Volunteer Fair was established in 2005 by the San Diego LGBT Community Leadership Council and is designed to provide San Diego community non-profit organizations with an opportunity to showcase their organizations and recruit for their year-round volunteer opportunities. It is also designed to make gathering information about organizations easy and painless for the hundreds of community members who make New Year's "resolutions" to volunteer.

    The sixth annual event will be held Wednesday, Jan. 26, 5:30-7 pm at The San Diego LGBT Community Center, 3909 Centre Street. There is no cost either to participating organizations or to those seeking to volunteer. Organizations seeking to participate should contact Jessica Culpepper at jculpepper@thecentersd.org for an application. Those seeking to volunteer, just show up!

    Coffee & Conversation with Lauren DeRose, Wednesday, Jan. 12, 7 pm
    January's cool woman is local indie-rock performer Lauren DeRose, who has played the main stage at San Diego Pride and San Diego Indie Music Fest, recorded with hit-maker and producer Linda Perry, and plays drums in the all-girl punk band, LadyParts. READ MORE...

    Family Matters Sea World Adventure, Wednesday, Jan. 12, 11 am
    Are your kids still on break? Join Family Matters for a fun filled day at Sea World. Meet at the entrance to Bay of Play at 11am. To RSVP contact Jane Schmoll (619) 822-3969 or families@thecentersd.org.

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    Program Events: Youth, Seniors, Families, Men, Women, HIV Community and More

     

    HIV Testing at The Center

     

    HIV Behavioral Health Services & Counseling (English & Spanish)

     

    NEW! Twenty-Somethings Discussion Groups

     

    50 & Better Together Bridge Group, Mondays at noon

     

    Lunch & Learn Presents "Levels of Care: What you Need to Know," Jan. 19, 11:30 am 

     

    Interview Skills Workshop, Thursday, Jan. 20, 7 pm

     

    LGBT Caregivers & Grief Support Group, First and Third Monday of each month, 5:30 pm

     

    Community

    Celebration of the Life of Michael Portantino, Saturday, Jan. 15, 1 pm

     

    Celebrate the 38th Anniversary of Roe v. Wade with Dr. Susan Wicklund, Thursday, Jan. 20, 6 pm

     

    Victory Fund Champagne Brunch, Sunday, Feb. 13, 11 am

     

    CESCal Conference, Feb. 25-27

     

    Click on any story to see all of the latest news

     

     

    Save The Date

    A Fabulous Menu of Year-End Giving Opportunities!

    No matter what strikes your passion and heart most deeply -- youth, seniors, families, housing, equality work --   there are a menu of giving opportunities to help support the 46,000 service visits for LGBT San Diegans that we provide every year!

    Every dollar you can give helps to support the services, projects and programs that make a difference for so many in the LGBT San Diego community. You don't have to give thousands to make a difference in livesgive what you can and together we can all keep making a difference!

    Thank you so much for your generosity and for all you do!

     Save The Date

    Thursday, April 28, 2011 – Dining Out for Life

    Friday, May 20, 2011 – Harvey Milk Diversity Breakfast
    Sunday, Sept. 25, 2011 – AIDS Walk San Diego

    Saturday, Oct. 22, 2011 – The Center's Annual Gala

    Saturday, Oct. 29, 2011 – Nightmare on Normal Street

    Careers

    Visit us online for more details about our current openings.

    The Center is located at:
    3909 Centre Street
    San Diego, CA 92103

    Our mailing address:
    P.O. Box 3357
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    Phone: (619) 692-2077
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    The Center is committed to a policy of non-discrimination in employment and in the provision of all services. The Center provides services without regard to race, ethnicity, color, gender, gender identity or expression, age, disability, religion, national origin, marital status, sexual orientation, ancestry, genetic characteristics, political belief or activity, status as a veteran, or any other characteristic protected by federal, state and local laws.


    Thursday, January 6, 2011

    -- straight allies needed!



    Human Rights Campaign


    It's the first full day of the new Congress. Anti-equality leaders now control the U.S. House. Our next challenge begins.

    Straight supporters can power this fight in 2011.

    Join

    As a thank you, we'll send you this handy USB car charger for your phone or iPod.

    USB car charger

    Remember all those anti-gay candidates who ran for office this year? As of yesterday, dozens of them are now members of Congress and the House of Representatives is under their control.

    And starting now, the voices of straight allies are more important than ever – because if right-wing leaders know how many straight Americans support equality, they'll understand the political consequences of their hate.

    To ensure they get the message, we're launching a huge effort in Congress and across the country to stop discriminatory federal legislation and local anti-marriage efforts – through grassroots pressure, rapid-response media, and public education – and to make sure our kids don't think it's wrong or evil to be who they are, just because a bigoted member of Congress might say so.

    To do it, we need 2,011 people like you to join HRC for 2011 in the next three weeks. That's just 201 from California. Join today and we won't send you any more notices for the remainder of our membership drive.

    We closed last year with a "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" repeal victory 17 years in the making. 2011 opens with a new, more conservative, more deeply anti-gay House leadership – helmed by right-wingers John Boehner and Eric Cantor. Together, they tried to stop us from repealing "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." They've opposed legislation on hate crimes, employment non-discrimination, responsible HIV/AIDS policy, and relationship recognition. And they just became very powerful.

    But we don't intend to just play defense.

    We can't – and won't – stop fighting to make sure all people get to marry the person they love, raise kids together, and have a family that's protected by the same laws as everyone else. That's why we're working to repeal the discriminatory Defense of Marriage Act, fight for marriage equality in the states, and ensure the freedom to marry for ALL Americans, gay or straight. Help now »

    We can't stop working to reduce bullying in schools or in communities of faith. We can't stop getting corporations to improve their policies for LGBT employees. And we can't stop exposing hateful groups like the National Organization for Marriage (NOM). This week, we forced NOM to release its tax returns and found that 75 percent of its funding comes from just five big donors. You can help »

    And we cannot give up fighting for a fully-inclusive Employment Non-Discrimination Act. In 29 states, you can still be fired for your sexual orientation. In 38 states, you can be fired for your gender identity. Fired – just for being who you are. That has to end. Help get there »

    Political pundits may say it's an uphill battle. But those same pundits said we couldn't repeal "Don't Ask, Don't Tell." Winning new battles for equality will take all the creativity and tenacity we brought to bear in that effort. It will also take significant resources – especially given the massive funding right-wing groups have at their disposal.

    That's why we need you, Patti. Over 85 percent of our funding comes from people like you, NOT from foundations or grants – so stand with us in 2011 and make a real difference in the civil rights battle of our time.

    There's one thing that won't change in 2011: We'll still rely on you, and you'll still make amazing things possible.

    Let's fight together,

    Joe Solmonese
    Joe Solmonese