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    Thursday, June 17, 2010

    openly gay in public school


    Constance McMillan wanted what lots of high school seniors want... A prom. 
    But because she's gay, her school canceled her prom.  
    What's changed, what hasn't... Openly gay in public school.  Next Talk of the Nation from NPR News.

    There are  various stations around the country, for example WCPN in Cleveland, KQED in San Francisco, that will be playing this story today.   You can access their live stream at www.wcpn.org and www.kqed.org  The broadcast begins at 3pm..  You can also join the conversation online. Go to www.npr.org and click on programs and Talk of the Nation.

     

     

    Wednesday, June 16, 2010

    Article about biblical interpretation of Leviticus

    The civil unions bill awaiting action by Gov. Lingle will extend to partners in such a union the same rights, benefits, protections and responsibilities that come as a matter of course to spouses in a marriage. Yet the bill itself clearly states that a civil union is not marriage.

    Why then is this a religious issue at all? In many ways it is not. Civil unions create a legal reality, not a religious one. Clergy will not be obligated to participate in a civil union ceremony any more than they would be required to bless a legal contract.

    Those who object to the bill on religious grounds tend to be literalists who justify their view by pointing to Leviticus 18. The problem is that by reading this text so literally, they completely remove this Scripture from an ancient social context that could not envision the possibility or appreciate the reality of loving same-sex relationships.

    Such negative judgments regarding gays and lesbians cannot go unchallenged. The thrust of this verse cannot legitimately override an overarching biblical ethos that teaches us that God loves and affirms the full humanity of each human being.

    It's important to note that Judaism does not base its religious teachings on the Protestant doctrine of Scripture alone. Judaism asserts that moral truths emerge out of an interpretive process that calls upon Jews to acknowledge that God has called on the Jewish people to serve as covenantal partners, and this obligation is fulfilled through an ongoing interpretation of the written text.

    In 1996 the Central Conference of American Rabbis representing Reform Judaism, the largest movement in American Judaism, considered a committee's scholarly analysis that included just such an interpretation. Among the many insights were the following:

    While the text of Leviticus does indeed refer to homosexual sexual activity as a "to evah," abomination, the meaning of that term has become ambiguous. They note that the Torah labels three categories of actions as abominations: idolatry, the eating of forbidden animal species and the sexual prohibitions of Leviticus 18 and 20. What these sins share in common is not the fact that they violate the "moral law." Instead, they violate the biblical boundaries of holiness that are meant to distinguish Israel from the other nations.

    The problems with this concept in the modern era now become obvious. Although many Jews observe the kosher laws, even the most traditional among us do not say that those who do not adhere to these rules are committing an abomination.

    Similarly, even if we do not share the beliefs or practices of other faith communities, we do not label their religious traditions as idolatry. Our attitude toward our neighbors' religions is one of tolerance, not abhorrence.

    The Reform conference committee suggested that, given our contemporary understanding of the nature of human sexual orientation, it no longer makes sense to classify homosexual behavior as a sin, much less a "to evah," and that the biblical and rabbinic proscriptions of homosexual behavior do not speak to the situation as we know it today.

    In 1996 the assembled membership of the Central Conference of American Rabbis affirmed in a resolution that stated, "Consistent with our Jewish commitment to the fundamental principle that we are all created in the divine image ... (we) support the right of gay and lesbian couples to share fully and equally in the rights of civil marriage."

    Rabbi David Ellenson, president of the Hebrew Union College-Jewish Institute of Religion, writes, "In Dickens' 'Oliver Twist,' when young Oliver approaches the wardens of the orphanage where he was housed and, after a scant meal, asks for 'more,' the wardens are scandalized.

    Yet, as one commentator upon this passage has pointed out, Oliver said 'more' when what he really meant was this: 'Will you just give me that normal portion which is necessary for a boy my age to live?'"

    Ellenson said, "As a religious Jew, I assert that the gay community today seeks nothing more than Oliver Twist - the 'normal portion' required to live a life of dignity and equality. Our society should be ashamed that gays and lesbians are subjected daily to indignity and prejudice in legal as well as social arenas, and religious persons must declare that position loud and clear in order to influence public opinion on this matter."



    Patti Boman

    Be the change that you want to see in the world.
    Ghandi

    Monday, June 14, 2010

    Ex Gay movement conference in Orange County this Saturday


    Dear friends of justice and equality for all people: 

     Two important events in the next two weeks in Orange County.  I am concerned enough to let you know about two conferences that are happening in Orange County.  Please read and forward the information that is pertinent in this email to any supportive and interested parties.  Thanks in advance! 

    EXODUS INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCE IN IRVINE, JUNE 23RD THROUGH 26TH 

    As you probably are aware by now, the Exodus International "Freedom" conference will be held this year again at Concordia University in Irvine, California, June 23rd through 26th.  Exodus International professes to offer freedom from homosexuality, which they label as Same Sex Attraction or SSA.  The organization has close ties to the Religious Right. 

    For more information on the Exodus International "ex-gay" conference, you can go to the Exodus International website at the following links: 

    http://www.exodusinternational.org/ 
    http://www.ExodusInternational.org/content/view/1049/37/ 
    http://exodusfreedom.org/ 

    To see the PSA of Exodus International about this year's conference, go to this link and take note of the red "Don't Walk" sign throughout the video: 

    http://vimeo.com/11588721 

    The theme of this year's Exodus International conference is "Moving Forward."  I am not sure what that means, given the ties that the organization has with right-wing organizations, but it gives me cause for concern.   

    This year's conference will be the 35th for the organization, which started in Anaheim, California, as the EXIT Ministry of Melodyland Christian Center.  For long-term Southern Californians you may recall that Melodyland used to be located across from Disneyland. 

    In light of the anniversary, Orange County has been chosen once again to host an Exodus conference.  This may seem innocent on the surface, given the anniversary and the location of the organization's founding, but I do not think it is that simple.  Exodus International strategically hosts its conferences in target locations where they believe that they can sway a sizable percentage of people to support their cause. 

    LBGT AFFIRMING RESPONSE TO THE EXODUS "FREEDOM" CONFERENCE - PROCLAIMING TRUE FREEDOM! 

    When Exodus International had their last conference in Irvine at Concordia University in June 2007, Irvine United Congregational Church (IUCC) hosted an affirming response to the ex-gay "Freedom" conference.  In 2007, the very successful Ex-Gay Survivors Conference brought healing for many people who had gone through ex-gay ministries.  This year, once again, IUCC is hosting a conference that offers a hopeful response to Exodus International's message of "Freedom From Homosexuality."  This year's LGBT-affirming, one-day conference will be held this Saturday, June 19th. 

    For more information and to register for the "Orange County LGBT Affirmation Conference - Orange County's Response to the Exodus International Ex-Gay Conference," please check out the following: 

    http://www.truthwinsout.org/blog/2010/06/9082/ 
    http://www.iucc.org/ 
    http://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/ 

    MORE INFORMATION ON EXODUS INTERNATIONAL CONFERENCES AND ON THE ORGANIZATION 

    For more information on Exodus International's past "Freedom" conferences, you may want to check outhttp://www.boxturtlebulletin.com/tag/exodus-freedom-conference. 

    An excellent report on the ex-gay movement can be found at 
    http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2007/winter/straight-like-me. 

    As most of you know, I spent more than eight years in the ex-gay movement and led an ex-gay ministry for about three of those years.  My experience is anecdotal, at best, but it is not only my experience.  Many others share similar stories.  When I was involved with Exodus International and various ex-gay ministries in the 1980s to early 1990s, Exodus International was not widely accepted within the evangelical Christian church.  That all began to change when Focus on the Family and other right-of-center organizations seized upon the opportunity to promote "family values" in the 1990s.  Soon Exodus International began a public policy wing and grew from a fledgling, mostly volunteer organization to a well-funded, "family values" right-of-center organization.   

    While I can point to some positive aspects of my years of experience in the ex-gay movement, I also feel that I experienced what amounted to a type of brainwashing.  I had to struggle for many years to find my faith again and it took me years to break free from depression that could be very problematic at times.  In short, despite whatever constructive elements of my ex-gay experience there may have been, in the end I felt that my involvement posed more problems than it resolved. 

    If you wish to read more about my experience with Exodus International, you can check out the following links: 

    http://www.splcenter.org/get-informed/intelligence-report/browse-all-issues/2007/winter/coming-out 

    My clarifications on the above interview appear at http://www.queerty.com/ex-gay-comes-clean-on-exorcism-20071211/and http://www.exgaywatch.com/wp/2007/12/former-ex-gay-minister-recounts-spiritual-rape-by-living-watersdesert-stream/. 

    http://www.post-gazette.com/forum/20001011edclarke4.asp